-I'm childish
-I'm a slob
-I'm not a mother
-I'm annoying
-I'm a bullshitter
-I'm a liar
-I'm judgmental
-I neglect children
-Ultimately I'm nuts.
This is what I have to say back
-I'm childish
Yes, I am. I love to start fights with girls for my own entertainment. It was my plan all along to have you take over my lease and then be a total bitch to you. I said what I need to say and I did what needed to be done. I am not apologizing for that. I spoke my mind and you couldn't take it. That doesn't make me childish, it makes me honest. Don't like what I write in my blog here? Don't read it. I can do what I want with this blog and I will. Read the title of it.
-I'm a slob
Yup, you got me pegged again. I am such a slob that my bathroom was so disgusting that it took you an hour to clean it. Please. I don't think you spent more than one hour in your entire life cleaning. You can't even clean yourself let alone a bathroom. Oh wait, I forgot. You couldn't shower cuz the shower was just so deplorable. I guess my floor was gross too cuz you left your dirty laundry on it for weeks at a time. That includes the PJs that your daughter shit on.
-I'm not a mother
No shit? I didn't know that. What gave it away, the lack of a child? No one has to be a mother to recognize signs of neglect. Ask any mother out there. Diapers that sag to a kid's knees and children who aren't bathed for a week or fed for up to 5 hours after they wake up sound like kids who are being neglected. If that's not neglect, I'm gonna be raising my kids wrong.
-I'm annoying
Ha! At least everyone I hang out with likes me. My friends or otherwise. I'm not getting into who I'm referring to cuz I'm sure they would rather not be involved, but do you really think that the people you know and hang (or hung) out with wouldn't agree with me on anything I have said? Bet me. Please. I'd bet a million $$ and be a millionaire overnight.
-I'm a bullshitter
Coming from the queen of all bullshitters. You have so much shit in you, it's comin out your ears. You deny everything, even if it was witnessed first-hand. A quote comes to mind, 'the only good thing that came outta your mouth was a dick' and it wasn't even your husband's was it?
-I'm a liar
Ok. I'm making all of this up just to spite you. Hey, crazy, I'm not you, I don't make shit up just because someone said something mean about me (oh wah). I'm saying it because you need to realize how you are cuz apparently, you have no clue. You must live in your own little lala land.
-I'm judgmental
Ya know, I could have been. I could have never spoken to you when I was told you rarely have your children, you don't take care of them when you do, and you are nothing but a lying drama queen. Did I? No, I got to know you. Unfortunately everything they said about you was true. Go figure.
-I neglect children
This one is just ridiculous. Yes, me who adores children and is willing to do whatever it takes to have one is neglectful of a child. Your kid played with markers. I told her not to keep colouring herself but I'm not her mother. She didn't listen to me. Plus, last I checked, kids play with markers and they are also washable. Neglectful? I think not.
-Ultimately I'm nuts.
Yeah, maybe, but why don't we ask who is on the nut pills. Not I, my friend.
I think that about covers it. I'm glad I got to know myself so well.
P.S. I hope you enjoy this one too since you loved my last one so much. Sit and chain-smoke and ignore your kids to this one.
11 comments:
I'd hate to live with a twit like you. I dont know how that girl did it. You come on this site and talk mad shit about her...and you were supposed to be her friend at one time? Thats fucked up. I'm a single mother and i know how hard it is to raise a child...and its just the beginning for me...she has TWO she's raising on her own. You have no clue what that feels like...how hard it is not to have someone to hold you at night after a day full of shitty diapers and temper tantrums....nights with no sleep...I think youre jealous. I think you hate the fact that she has these two beautiful children and you cant even have one. Thats your issue...not hers. Its not her fault. You need to sit back and take a long hard look at the person you make yourself out to be...dont even TRY to bring a child into this world when you cant even control even yourself...let alone a screaming toddler.
You have no place to tell her she's a bad mom. The only ppl that have that right are her children.
Get over yourself and stop putting ppl down in blogs...its PATHETIC! if you want to put someone down..at least call them...grow up! when you do...then think about children
First, let me get something through to you. It's not talkin shit if I say it to her. I haven't put anything in here that I haven't said directly to her. Believe me I told her everything last night, thank you. And no, her kids aren't the only ones who have the right to call her a bad mom. I'm sure the state does (and would) too.
Second, I can't stress how I LIVED WITH HER. I saw how she treated her kids. I guess it's safe to assume that since you think she is such a great mom that you must neglect your kid too. I understand raising children is not easy, but like I said, you don't need to be a mother to know how to raise one. I guess I do though cuz I never realized that shitty diapers caused so much stress. I worked at a daycare, I changed about 40 shitty diapers A DAY. I dealt with temper tantrums. Yes, I got to go home at the end of the day but if you want to turn this into a 'who has it worse' thing. I win. 40 vs. maybe 2 shitty diapers takes the cake.
Thirdly, When are you two gonna get better comebacks? The whole 'you don't have kids' comeback is gettin old. It's been used before. And yes, I am jealous. I'm jealous that she gets those kids because she doesn't appreciate them whatsoever. This is the number one reason I don't believe in god. Because selfish, scummy, little girls get babies and I don't.
Oh, and you want to talk about talking shit and judging people? What do you know about me and MY ability to raise a child? Remember, I'm not a mother. How do you know how I will be as a mother. I've been told since I was about 16 (when I helped my neighbor raise his kid after his wife died) that I would be a great mom. I agree. So do a lot of people.
Oh and this comment came from the same IP address as last night and since you gave away that you are a single mother of one child, I can only deduce that this is Shannon.
How PATHETIC is it to have her only friend left talk shit on MY blog for her. Why can't she say things to me instead of you.
I've said it once, I'll say it again. This is my blog. I can do what I please with it. If you don't like it, don't read it. If your only concern is me tarnishing her name, I never used names. The people who read this are either people who know her or people who don't even know who I am talking about. So it doesn't matter does it now?
P.S. I like your new name although I can't say it's better than anonymous cuz you still didn't leave a REAL name. I like the whole chicken part though cuz it just proves what you are since, like I said, you didn't use a real name.
Well she may not be able to tell your friend she is a lousy mother but I can...seeing I have 3 children. I can't remember having been stressed from changing shitty diapers all day, I didn't realize doing that caused stress...hmmmmm. I wasn't the one throwing the tantrums (the kids did), so why is there stress?? Or is that who you were referring to,your friend having a tantrum and she caused her own stress. I have seen pics of her kids and let me tell you the diaper damn near hanging off the one childs ass looks pathetic! Can I say change this childs pissy diaper or is her pc really more important than her kids? In the pictures I can see she also isn't the greatest housekeeper,and like I said no mother of the year award there.So before she goes running her mouth off, she should really look at her own life first. And no she is not raising her kids by herself, her mother takes them for weeks at a time, like when she moved into her apartment and her mom had the children, so she could move, for 3 weeks and then she actually hired guys to move her and she still didn't get them for how long after? Did I mention she sat on her ass the entire time her kids were gone. And as far as her having children, thats now of your business or Amandas. It's pretty shitty when someone stoops so low as to remind them of something she already knows. She will have a child one day and boy won't you feel like a fucking ass then especially when she turns out to be one hell of a Mom! She watches and learns from people like Amanda who don't know how to take care of her kids.Always remember, what goes around comes around, so it seems to me Amanda should be walking on eggshells. HAVE A GOOD DAY! ;-)
Seriously? wow... i have two kids of my own, both UNDER the age of TWO.. and im able to keep a clean house, give them DAILY baths, and keep yself clean, and manage to go to the gym every other day? so if i am able to do that, why is it so hard for HER to be able to do any of it herself? both my kids are under two, her kids however are a good two years apart which im sure makes anything and everything helluva lot easier on her part?
I never lived with her but i know how she is and you are right, she does neglect her kids, who lets their kids go to their grandparents for a week at a time.. i freak when im away from my kids for a NIGHT, im up at the crack of DAWN wanting to get them..
shits crazy i tell you, some people shouldnt breed, im sorry you have to deal with this shit Jenn, hope it all works out for the best!
oh and more shit ill tell you when i talk to you or ill email you..
later
ok, i by no means am talking shit and I can only come up with one person in mind that this would be about and while never having met this person personally, have only ever heard bad things about her from everyone who knows her.
"chicken" as you like to call yourself? I was a single mother and let me tell you, its not "stressful" at all. If you are just "in the begining" as you like to put it, what temper tantrums does a newborn throw and you only having one kid and being in the "begining" as you like to say, new borns sleep all the fucking time. What, are you not getting your required 16 hours of sleep? please, i take care of a newborn and a preschooler.
Jenn makes herself out to be a brass tax person, never tried to cover up her bluntness, doesnt falsely advertise herself. Just because all you had to do was spread your legs and get pregnant doesn't mean its that easy for the rest of the world and doesn't mean that those who it takes awhile to get pregnant aren't going to be great parents. Your ability on how fast you get pregnant in no way shape or form reflects on your parenting skills. Although I will say those who it comes so easily by only seem to take advantage of what they have.
For someone who got pregnant to "trap" the other person and to get into the "way of life" only sees those kids as a payday and takes advantage of life and does the bare minimum. Funny how she cant speak for herself.
I have TWO kids that I am practically raising on my own thanks to good ole' uncle sam and let me tell you what, my house is clean, my kids are well taken care of, clean, fed and my 2 week old is never in a dirty diaper that requires suspenders to hold it up off the ground. I get maybe 3 good hours of sleep a night before getting up at 7-8 am with my 4 year old and being up intil 11-12 at night when my son finally goes down for a straight 3 hours at night.
Please take your pity me sob story about having to raise one kid, let alone her 2 kids on your/her own and realize that there are people out there doing it everyday and who manage to not suck at it or think it is "oh so hard and stressful" that they cant get off their ass and move from the computer screen long enough to make sure that their kids get a good days interaction and attention that they need. When the kids are in bed alseep for the night is the grown up time.
Jess, I love YOU. :D
Well Jenn, This is Amanda's mom. What are you 12? What did she ever do to you? If you had wanted your stuff maybe you should have taken it with you when you left. And as for me and my husband having the girls all the time. We take them because we love them very much and are trying to spend as much time with them as we can before they get stationed somewhere else. And I told her if Kerri being there upset her not to let her in because she is paying the rent there now. And you should watch what you say about peoples mental status because Karma has a way of biting you in the ass. Maybe you should grow up. And I don't care if you know who this is.
If you got something to say, say it.
You know, I really wasn't going to reply to any of this, but since the girls are down for a nap, oh what the hell. Why not.
"I guess my floor was gross too cuz you left your dirty laundry on it for weeks at a time. That includes the PJs that your daughter shit on"
Excuse me, but I do believe that I did my laundry whenever the washer was open. The PJs that my daughter pooped on, it took me 3 days to wash them because I was waiting for the washer and dryer to be empty. I guess it really is that hard to take your clothes out of the dryer.
"Diapers that sag to a kid's knees and children who aren't bathed for a week or fed for up to 5 hours after they wake up sound like kids who are being neglected"
I missed one diaper change, that made Lily's diaper sag to her knees. ONE DIAPER. I changed them both pretty regularly. And now that Lily is potty trained, that leaves me with one child's diaper to change. And yes, they were bathed more than once a week, but would you really know that, I mean, after all, you were sleeping till about 4 in the afternoon most days. And not feeding them for 5 hours? Wow. Because like I said, you would really know what I do when they get up, because you were always awake that early.
"At least everyone I hang out with likes me. My friends or otherwise."
You know what, I know I am annoying. And yet those people still chose to hang around me. Those people still called and asked me to come over and hang out. If they really disliked me that much, LOSE MY NUMBER. Simple.
"A quote comes to mind, 'the only good thing that came outta your mouth was a dick' and it wasn't even your husband's was it?"
Excuse you. Unlike some of the army wives that you call friends, I have never, and will never cheat on my husband. And you guys can say anything you want. It really doesn't bother me.
"You must live in your own little lala land."
No ma'am, I live in the real world. I'm making everything up because someone was mean to me. Ohhhhh yes. I was so upset because someone deleted me off of myspace and refused to talk to me, that I got all butthurt and went on a little rampage. I think not.
"I could have never spoken to you when I was told you rarely have your children, you don't take care of them when you do, and you are nothing but a lying drama queen."
I may not always have my kids, because my parents like to spend time with them, but I have witnessed every single one of their milestones, and have always been there, either in person or on the phone. And as for not taking care of them, I call bullshit because I care about my daughters very much. I do everything I can to make sure that they are fed, clothed, get played with every day, and get the sleep that they need.
"Your kid played with markers. I told her not to keep colouring herself but I'm not her mother. She didn't listen to me. Plus, last I checked, kids play with markers and they are also washable"
Is it really that hard to take a marker away from the kid? Of course she didn't listen, she is 2 years old. You get up and take the marker away.
"Yeah, maybe, but why don't we ask who is on the nut pills. Not I, my friend"
Ok, so I am on medication to deal with depression that i have battled for 9 years, and anxiety that I have battled for 5 years. Those are nut pills? Since when? And when did it become a crime to be on meds? And uhhh, last you told me, weren't you debating on going on meds for your "OCD"
"Sit and chain-smoke and ignore your kids to this one."
I do not ignore my kids. Thank you very much.
"Well, she didn't like that friend anymore because of (surprise) other drama that she created."
I created drama? All I did was delete her off of myspace. I didn't like things that she was doing in her life, and decided that I didn't need to be around it. Is it really that big of a deal to delete someone off of myspace? Is your myspace life that important that you flip shit over someone deleting you? Really? Ambie deleted me, and that was her choice, I didn't ask why, because, personally, I don't care. It's MYSPACE. Get the fuck over it.
"After 2 months of asking for that package and 3 days that I didn't have to find those papers, I finally got fed up and asked a friend to get my stuff because it was always something with her"
2 months ago, I was dealing with finance fucking our paycheck up. We ended up with a $313 paycheck at the beginning of the month, when we pay all of our bills. So yes, our bank account was screwed up for 2 months trying to get everything back on track. I prefer to pay my bills, and make sure my kids have food. And no, not McDonalds. You ask anyone who comes to my house after I've grocery shopped and ask them whats there, fresh fruits, veggies, chicken breasts. REAL FOOD. Mrs "I don't keep fresh fruit in my house". And really, those 3 days of not getting your papers. I was trying to figure out why my rent allotment didn't go through. I told you that. I'm sorry that your husband's papers aren't as important to me as getting my rent figured out. Maybe he should have taken those papers with him to Iraq like EVERYONE else did. Or maybe you should have taken them to New York with you.
"Oh and this comment came from the same IP address as last night and since you gave away that you are a single mother of one child, I can only deduce that this is Shannon."
Really, maybe you should recheck the IP address, because Shannon doesn't have a computer, and it was my friend Sarah, in Florida.
Oooh, ooh, I also loved that 2 of your friends posted anonymously.
To the one who said "And no she is not raising her kids by herself, her mother takes them for weeks at a time, like when she moved into her apartment and her mom had the children, so she could move, for 3 weeks and then she actually hired guys to move her and she still didn't get them for how long after? Did I mention she sat on her ass the entire time her kids were gone."
When I moved in. I was stressed out. My husband had just deployed, and I was moving out of my house, and trying to potty train a 2 year old, and take care of a 10 month old, while also adjusting to new medication. Oops, I'm sorry that I am such a bad parent that my mom offered to take the girls so I could get everything situated while dealing with everything. And yes, I did hire guys to move me, because some of the stuff was just too heavy to move myself, and any time I asked Jenn and Jenna to help (after the first 2 carloads) neither of them wanted to help. And Jenn sure didnt seem to have a problem with me getting movers, since she used them to move some of HER stuff to HER storage unit. And really, I sat on my ass the ENTIRE time they were gone? I was back and forth on base cleaning my old house, and going to appointments, and getting shit taken care of. Unlike Jenn who left, lets seeeee, A 42 inch TV, a queen size bed, a game chair, an entire dining room set, and 4 large boxes of useless shit in the apartment. But I am the lazy one. OK!
And as for me supposedly not cleaning, I offered to clean a lot of stuff. A lot of stuff. But damn near every time that I did, I was told, "No, that's Jenna's job, she needs to do it."
Dear Jess
"ok, i by no means am talking shit and I can only come up with one person in mind that this would be about and while never having met this person personally, have only ever heard bad things about her from everyone who knows her."
Ok, and yet, I am the one talking shit about everyone and everything. Ok. Because that makes sense.
"For someone who got pregnant to "trap" the other person and to get into the "way of life" only sees those kids as a payday and takes advantage of life and does the bare minimum. Funny how she cant speak for herself."
Wow, you really don't know much about me, do you. First of all, we got married BEFORE I got pregnant. So no, I didn't "trap" my husband to get into the "way of life" If you even knew me, you would know that I dated ONE other army guy before my husband. ONE. And, I didn't sleep with any either. So you can take your judgemental, assinine bullshit and shove it where you will. I never spoke for myself before, because I think this whole thing is ridiculous, and comepletely out of control.
"there are people out there doing it everyday and who manage to not suck at it or think it is "oh so hard and stressful" that they cant get off their ass and move from the computer screen long enough to make sure that their kids get a good days interaction and attention that they need."
My kids get plenty of attention. A lot more attention than some of Jenn's other friends give their kids. But Oh My God, no one is sitting here talking shit about them, because, Oh My God, Jenn is still friends with them, so why would she talk shit. Oh wait, nevermind.
And by the way, if I was such a neglectful mother, wouldn't you have called CPS on me by now? Go ahead. But please wait till I get back to Fairbanks, I'm in Anchorage right now, and would hate for CPS to have to waste their time going to my house, only to find no one home. I'll be back January 3rd. Go ahead and give them a call then. I'm sure they would love to waste a visit on me.
Oooh, and just FYI, if I don't feed my kids, and Olivia isn't even on solid foods, how does a 10 month old weigh 20 lbs?
Oooh, and another one, kids only get to be as smart as Lily when you read to them and spend time with them, they don't get smart from watching TV. Look it up.
Ohh, and Kerry, karma is coming for you hun. Lock up your child and hide in a closet.
I also would like to say that i lived with Amanda for the same amount of time Jenn did and ill back JENN up 100 percent because i also witnessed it.
You say you changed the diapers pretty regularly? HA! Bull shit bitch.. i did. And Even if Jenn did sleep til 4 (which she didnt, she just didnt want to come out of the bedroom and deal with you and your kids) I came home on lunch from work EVERYDAY and those kids still hadnt been fed, and you still where on the computer from when i left. Your right Amanda, your annoying as fuck. And come on, really, who do you hang out with? Cause for the month i lived with you, you never went ANYWHERE, but myspace and cafe mom. You dont give 2 shits about your kids. You dont do everything you can to take care of them. They never EVER took naps as long as you lived with me. The rarely ate oh and ive never seen them get a bath. Not once. For your information Amanda.. Depression is a mental disorder, so therefor you need 'nut pills.' Jenn may have been debating going on meds, but did she.. NOPE.
"Sit and chain-smoke and ignore your kids to this one."
I do not ignore my kids. Thank you very much... (Amandas responce)... Notice how she didnt say anything about the chain smoking hahaha. WITH HER KIDS IN THE HOUSE. Dumbass.
Why yes Amanda, you did create Drama. Notice how all this 'Drama' happening now all stems around you? Do you have nothing better to do then read blog spots and have your mommy send comments too?
FYI - Amanda didnt offer to clean shit. You couldnt even clean up after your kids finally ate, cause i recall plenty of times coming home from work *at a Daycare mind you* and cleaning up after you and your two kids. I just got done doing that all day, you really think i wanted to come home and do it too?
Dont worry bitch, CPS will be called, even if i have to do it myself.
oooh oooh. How about ive never seen Olivia ever eat a solid food once.
Keep Kerrys name outta your mouth bitch. Karmas coming for YOU. Even if i have to change my name to Karma.
So to get things straight, there is nothing anonymous about this post it's AMBIE... i wasn't going to say anything to anyone about this all but dear you brought my name into it!!
first and foremost i do apologize to both Jenn and Kerry, because the day i did some clean up on my friends list is the day Mrs follow the leader, created this drama!
To whoever chicken shit may be, be it shannon *which i do highly doubt, didn't amanda try and kiss her boyfriend* or it be some "sarah person" in florida.. or maybe even amanda posting as someone else! Amanda is not a single mother so dont make her off to be one, she is very married and the army offers quite a bit of help during deployments she just needs to accept the fact she needs help and take it, he life isn't rough in the least bit! and as for the fact we were at one point friends with amanda yea we were AT ONE POINT, until we figured out who she was and how she acted. the fact that she's attached to your hip the from the moment she meets you until someone new comes around and then you don't hear from her until she either needs help, something dramatic happened and she needs a shoulder to cry on, or she's drunk on her way home from the bar then you get the "i love you i miss you so much we need to hang out soon" text message and still don't hear from her for weeks after until again she's drunk on her way home from the bar or the world is falling apart! not very good friend qualities to have, therefore none of us are friends with her anymore...
as for my opinion on it all to amanda... you say it took you 3days to wash the pj's because the washer and dryer were full but fact is it takes a half hour in the washer and an hour in the dryer not 3 days and im sure if you said "hey my kid crapped on her clothes can i squeeze a load of my laundry in here between your loads" they would have been perfectly fine with it. lets point the finger instead of taking responsibility for our actions!
as for the diapers sagging to the floor i haven't seen this so called picture so i cant say anything about it, but i do know your child has leaked through her diaper onto my sisters carpet more than once, and i do know that for a child to leak through a diaper it takes several HOURS for a child to pee that much!! so don't think you've only missed ONE diaper.
i don't know how much you bathe your children so once again i cant say anything about that, but if its anywhere close to how often you clean your kitchen it probably happens once a week.
as for the quote that we all find so funny "the only good thing that came outta your mouth was a dick and it wasn't even your husbands" the fact is you can say whatever you wish about how your husband didn't care and it was a drunken night and you all thought it was funny, but truth to the matter is your husband doesn't care if you cheat on him or what you do because you don't do it for him anymore. and i would like to think of myself as one of those army wives jen calls a friend here and i have never and would never cheat on my husband :)
"Is it really that hard to take a marker away from the kid? Of course she didn't listen, she is 2 years old. You get up and take the marker away." the funny thing that you say this, because in NO WAY is it her job to get up and take the marker away when you're sitting right there on your computer in the same room. you are her mother and jen doesn't get paid to parent your child!
"Well, she didn't like that friend anymore because of (surprise) other drama that she created."
""I created drama?"" yes hunny you created drama, go figure!! all kerry wanted to do was come get jens stuff out of the apartment and you couldn't put your dislike of her and her life aside for even a half hour to allow someone to do something nice for another person, something that you had been asked to do for MONTHS. you say you haven't had time to get to the post office, does that mean you haven't mailed your husband a package yet?? you say you didn't have the money to mail it, but the two weeks your children were in anchorage you had the money to go to the bars to go to the strip club and oh wait to buy weed, but not to mail a package to someone you owe money too.. nope thats tooo much trouble!! but yes my bad, you preferred to pay your bills and feed your kids first right!? i mean that is what you say..
as for getting rid of you kids for you move, understandable for a few days, but weeks?!!? yea yer husbands deployed yea its stressful. my husbands deployed, im stressed, im 7months pregnant and have a 6month old dog who requires just as much attention as a toddler and yet i managed a smooth move across town without putting Chanel in a boarding facility to ease the stress :) nothings impossible right!
"Oooh, and just FYI, if I don't feed my kids, and Olivia isn't even on solid foods, how does a 10 month old weigh 20 lbs?" the same way a 21 year old weighs 175lbs without eating all day!!
"Oooh, and another one, kids only get to be as smart as Lily when you read to them and spend time with them, they don't get smart from watching TV. Look it up." i've personally seen you interact with your children more than once and have never seen you pick up a book and read to either of them or even so much as play with them. i've colored with lily while you sat on your computer 'myspacing' so yea i guess myspace is life these days huh...
as for your parting threat towards kerry, keep it up my friend and you will regret what comes to you! if there is one thing i dont let slide is shit like that!
**Sigh** im sure there is way more to say but im done! Jenn i love you!!
xoxo,
Ambie
Looks to me like I have way more people to back me up here. Thank you to everyone who commented anonymous or not. I love you all! My response to Amanda and her mother is now a new entry.
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